When you’re keeping things going, but struggling inside

Perhaps you feel anxious, overwhelmed or exhausted by everyday life. You may be finding relationships difficult, questioning yourself, or feeling disconnected from emotions you can’t quite put into words. You don’t need to know exactly what’s wrong before seeking support.

Counselling and psychotherapy in West Oxfordshire and online

I’m Jim Slattery, a UKCP and BACP-registered psychotherapist and counsellor. I work with adults to understand what is troubling them, explore patterns that keep them feeling stuck, and find ways forward that reflect their needs.

Book an Initial Consultation or email jim@heart-mind-body.co.uk if you would prefer to make contact in writing.

  • 50-minute sessions

  • £65 per session with discounted fees available

  • In person and online.

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You may recognise yourself here

Your mind rarely switches off
You spend time worrying, anticipating problems or going over conversations. Even when things seem fine, it can be difficult to relax.

Relationships leave you feeling hurt or unsure
You may fear rejection, struggle with closeness, put other people’s needs first or find yourself caught in familiar conflicts.

You’re hard on yourself
You feel you should be doing better, coping better or achieving more. Mistakes can bring shame, and reassurance rarely seems to last.

You find it difficult to know what you feel or need
You may feel numb, shut down or overwhelmed. Perhaps you can explain your experiences clearly, yet still struggle to feel differently.

Something has changed—or needs to change
Loss, burnout, difficult past experiences or questions about identity may have unsettled your sense of yourself. You may simply know that continuing as you are feels difficult.

Therapy offers space to explore these experiences without having to arrive with a diagnosis or a clear explanation.

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What working with me is like

My approach is active and collaborative. I listen carefully, ask questions and help you notice connections between your experiences, emotions and relationships.

We can explore how earlier experiences influence the present, while also finding practical ways to manage current difficulties. This might involve understanding anxiety, expressing feelings, setting boundaries or recognising what you need.

Working integratively means I draw on different therapeutic approaches and adapt our work to you. We will discuss the pace and direction together, with space to say what feels helpful and what doesn’t.

Sessions and practical details

I offer counselling and psychotherapy for adults in Oxfordshire, alongside online sessions across the UK.

Sessions last 50 minutes, usually at the same time each week. We can discuss a focused period of therapy or longer-term work, depending on your needs.

  • Standard session fee: £65

  • Reduced fees: available for those facing financial hardship

  • Current openings: Availability across the week, including some evening work

If you have access requirements, please contact me so we can discuss suitable arrangements.

About me

I’m Jim Slattery, an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, and founder of Heart Mind Body.

My qualifications include an MSc and Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy, alongside a Postgraduate Diploma in Psychology. I also bring over ten years’ experience in mindfulness, psychoeducation and compassion-based work.

I have a particular interest in helping people understand recurring relationship patterns, connect with difficult emotions and develop a less critical relationship with themselves. I also work with autistic adults and adults with ADHD, exploring each person’s experiences of identity, relationships and belonging.

Taking the first step

A free 20-minute online consultation gives us a chance to discuss what brings you to therapy, answer your questions and consider whether working together feels right. There is no obligation to continue.

If you decide to proceed, we can arrange a first 50-minute therapy session at my standard fee.

Prefer to email? Contact jim@heart-mind-body.co.uk. A brief message about what brings you here and when you are available is enough.

I usually respond within one working day.